Jaceyl igabi baa disha( A toxic relationship extinguishes love).

 

This proverb illustrates the consequences of premarital relationships, particularly in Somali society. It highlights the idea that such relationships can lead to disappointment and negative outcomes, especially for the woman involved. In Somali communities, premarital relationships are frowned upon, and the woman often faces negative treatment and insults. The man may achieve his goals, while the woman may lose her virginity and her dignity. The societal expectations and consequences of premarital relationships are deeply ingrained in Somali culture, with a focus on maintaining the woman's honor and reputation.